Why is it that when certain women get married they start to act holier than thou as if they never had a sexual past? The second coming of the Virgin Mary they are not! Humph! This lady I know, I will call her Pam, was relating a story to me about her niece, I will call her Denise. Denise has been a bit reckless sexually, but she is young and we all live and learn. I am not excusing her behavior but I am saying we all make mistakes and she will learn. Now Denise does have a baby but c’mon she is 20 years old so she is an adult. Now I have listened to all of Pam’s stories about Denise but the one yesterday was over the line. Denise met a guy online, I will call him Jim, and they have been chatting for a while on the net. Jim lives in the carribean and he decided to come visit her for the first time. Keep in mind they have only been chatting for only two months. They were having a good time until and she even sexed him up. Denise left the house for work and while she was gone Jim decided to go through her computer. Now Jim is an IT/ MIS specialist so he knows how to pull up info you think you deleted. he pulled up all of her cpmuter history and saw all of her chats and nude pictures she was sending to other guys. He got pissed and fussed Denise out. He told her she was immature and she was not virtuous and yada, yada, yada. Jim told Denise he love her and could not believe she would break his heart this way. Ok stop right here. I can say I would have dropped Jim’s ass on the spot because he invaded Denise’s privacy. I mean he don’t pay for her internet access and he did not buy that computer so he should have kept his black ass hands off of it. They have only been chatting to two months and they have not even been dating because his ass lives on another country. Jim is dumb if you ask me and he is a hypocrite. He is also an evangelist so what is he doing sexing up Denise before marriage ummmm…hello? Then Jim wants to break up with Denise. I would have said, “NEXT!” Jim get your ass to the left. I mean he got some nerve going into her computer and looking at her stuff and then fussing at her. They were not even dating. They were only chatting online and it was only two months. He is the dumb ass to get his feelings all in it so quickly, and Pam, Denise’s aunt, agrees with Jim. Pam is a dumb ass too and all she is thinking about is money becasue Jim has a good career. If I was Denise I would kick Pam’s ass to the left also. So then Iasked Pam, “how many dicks did you jump on back in the day before you married?” “How many married men did you sleep with as a sinlge woman back in the day Pam?’ I am no condoning bad behavior, but I am saying let’s stop judging and talking down to women who make mistakes and let’s start teaching and uplifting each other.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Who You Calling A Ho? Don't Judge Her
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